Getting married abroad (US legal recognition)

Marriages performed abroad are generally recognized in the US if valid under the laws of that country. Requirements vary by destination: documentation, waiting periods, witnesses, and civil/religious ceremonies differ.

12 steps across 2 sections

1. Steps Process

  • Research destination requirements — Contact embassy/consulate. Common needs: passport, birth certificate, proof of single status, divorce/death certificates if applicable.
  • Obtain required documents — Get certified copies, usually within 3-6 months.
  • Get documents apostilled — Hague Convention countries: apostille from Secretary of State. Others: consular legalization.
  • Get translations — Certified translations if documents not in local language.
  • File notice of marriage — Some countries require advance notice (France: 40 days, Italy: 2-4 weeks).
  • Civil ceremony — Most countries require civil ceremony for legal validity.
  • Obtain foreign marriage certificate — Get multiple certified copies.
  • Register in US — Not required for recognition, but needed for name changes, benefits, tax filing.

2. Key Details

  • US recognizes marriages valid under local law — no need to remarry
  • US embassies do NOT perform marriages
  • Same-sex marriages: legal in many but not all countries
  • Residency requirements vary (some countries require days/weeks in-country)

Common Mistakes

  • Not starting paperwork 3-6 months early
  • Not getting documents properly apostilled
  • Assuming religious ceremony is legally binding
  • Not getting enough certified copies of marriage certificate

Pro Tips

  • Denmark, Gibraltar known for simple requirements
  • Consider legal ceremony at home, symbolic ceremony abroad if requirements too...
  • Hire local wedding planner experienced with foreign couples

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