The therapy intake process is the structured first step of beginning therapy. It typically involves paperwork before the session, a longer-than-usual first appointment (often 50-75 minutes), and a comprehensive assessment of your history, current concerns, and goals.
55 steps across 10 sections
1. Paperwork and Forms
- Demographic information: Name, contact, emergency contact, referral source
- Informed consent: Explains confidentiality, its limits (mandated reporting for harm to self/others, child/elder abuse), session policies, and your rights
- HIPAA notice: Privacy practices for your health information
- Health history: Medical conditions, current medications (name, dose, frequency, side effects), past surgeries, family medical history
- Mental health history: Previous therapy, hospitalizations, psychiatric medications, diagnoses
- Intake questionnaire: Current symptoms, what brings you to therapy, goals for treatment
- Standardized screening tools: PHQ-9 (depression), GAD-7 (anxiety), or other validated measures
- Insurance information: Card copy, authorization if required
- Cancellation policy and fee agreement
2. Insurance Verification
- Confirm the therapist accepts your specific insurance plan (not just the company — plans within the same company can differ)
- Know your copay, coinsurance, and whether the deductible applies
- Ask if prior authorization is needed (some plans require it for mental health visits)
- Understand session limits if any exist on your plan
3. What to Prepare
- Reflect on your goals: Think about what prompted you to seek therapy now. You do not need to have perfect answers — even "I'm not sure, I just know something needs to change" is valid.
- Write a brief list: Jot down your main concerns, symptoms, and what you hope to get out of therapy. Bringing notes is encouraged.
- Medication list: Bring a complete list of all current medications, including supplements
- Relevant records: If you have previous therapy records, psychiatric evaluations, or medical records relevant to your mental health, having them available (or knowing dates/providers) is helpful
- Practical preparation: Confirm the address or telehealth link. Plan to arrive 10-15 minutes early. For virtual sessions, test your camera, microphone, and internet. Choose a private space where you can speak freely.
4. Typical Structure (50-75 minutes)
- Presenting concern: What brought you to therapy? When did you first notice the problem? How is it affecting your daily life?
- History of present issue: Timeline, severity, triggers, what you have tried so far
- Mental health history: Previous therapy experiences (what helped, what did not), past diagnoses, psychiatric hospitalizations, history of self-harm or suicidal thoughts
- Medical history: Current health conditions, medications, sleep patterns, appetite changes, chronic pain
- Family history: Mental health conditions in the family, family of origin dynamics, current family relationships
- Social history: Relationships, social support system, living situation, employment/education, cultural and spiritual background
- Substance use: Alcohol, drugs, caffeine, tobacco — frequency, quantity, history
- Safety assessment: Current suicidal or homicidal thoughts, access to means, self-harm behaviors, domestic violence concerns
- Strengths and resources: Coping skills that work, supportive people in your life, past successes in overcoming challenges
- What you want to work on (short-term and long-term goals)
5. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Focus: Identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviors
- Best for: Depression, anxiety, phobias, OCD, insomnia
- What it looks like: Structured sessions with homework; learning to recognize cognitive distortions and replace them with balanced thoughts
- Duration: Typically 12-20 sessions
6. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Focus: Emotional regulation, distress tolerance, mindfulness, interpersonal effectiveness
- Best for: Borderline personality disorder, chronic suicidality, emotional dysregulation, self-harm
- What it looks like: Individual therapy plus skills group (often weekly); diary cards to track emotions and behaviors
- Duration: Standard program is about 1 year
7. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Focus: Processing traumatic memories through bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping, or tones)
- Best for: PTSD, trauma, anxiety rooted in past experiences
- What it looks like: Therapist guides you through recalling traumatic memories while performing bilateral stimulation; does not require detailed retelling of the trauma
- Duration: Varies; often 6-12 sessions for a single trauma
8. Psychodynamic Therapy
- Focus: Unconscious patterns, early life experiences, and how they shape current behavior and relationships
- Best for: Long-standing patterns, relationship difficulties, personality-related issues, self-understanding
- What it looks like: Open-ended conversation; explores childhood experiences, dreams, defense mechanisms, transference
- Duration: Can be short-term (12-20 sessions) or long-term (years)
9. Other Common Approaches
- ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy): Mindfulness-based; focuses on accepting difficult thoughts/feelings while committing to value-driven behavior
- EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy): Primarily for couples; focuses on attachment bonds and emotional responsiveness
- Somatic Experiencing: Body-based approach for trauma; focuses on physical sensations
- IFS (Internal Family Systems): Works with "parts" of the self; effective for trauma, anxiety, depression
- Motivational Interviewing: Helps resolve ambivalence about change; often used for substance use
10. What to Know
- Intake sessions may be billed differently. The first session often uses CPT code 90791 (psychiatric diagnostic evaluation), which may have a different copay than regular therapy sessions (90834 for 45 min, 90837 for 60 min).
- Your therapist will assign a diagnosis. Insurance requires a diagnosis code (ICD-10) for payment. Common intake diagnoses include adjustment disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, or major depressive disorder. Ask your therapist what di...
- Pre-authorization: Some plans require prior authorization. Your therapist's office typically handles this, but verify.
- Session frequency: Insurance usually covers weekly sessions. Some plans limit total sessions per year (though the Mental Health Parity Act restricts this).
- Out-of-network: If your therapist is out-of-network, ask for a superbill. Submit to your insurance for partial reimbursement after meeting your out-of-network deductible.
- Good Faith Estimate: Under the No Surprises Act, uninsured/self-pay patients have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate of expected charges before treatment begins.
Common Mistakes
- Not being honest
- Expecting to feel better after one session
- Not completing intake paperwork
- Skipping the insurance call
- Judging the entire process by one session
Pro Tips
- Bring notes
- Be honest about past therapy
- Ask about their approach early
- It is okay to cry
- You do not have to share your deepest trauma on day one
Sources
- LifeStance Health: Your First Therapy Appointment
- Inspira Health: What to Expect During Intake
- Headway: Tips for Conducting Successful Intake Sessions
- The Comfy Place: Preparing for an Intake
- The Counseling Hub: Clearing Up the Process -- The Intake Session
- Lyra Health: What to Expect in Your First Therapy Session
- Genesis Counseling: What Happens in Your First Therapy Session?
- Therapists.com: Important Questions for Therapists to Ask During Intake
- Positive Psychology: Therapy Intake Questions
- Blueprint: A Therapist's Go-To Questions for Intake Sessions
- Psych Central: 10 Introductory Questions Therapists Commonly Ask
- MyWellbeing: What Will My Therapist Ask Me in Our First Session?
- Grow Therapy: What to Expect and How to Prepare
- Choosing Therapy: How to Prepare for Your First Session
- Lindner Center of Hope: How to Prepare for Your First Therapy Session