Cremation has overtaken burial as the most common disposition in the US (~60% cremation vs. ~35% burial).
12 steps across 2 sections
1. Steps Considerations
- Check the deceased's wishes — Will, pre-arrangement documents, verbal wishes to family.
- Consider religious/cultural beliefs — Some religions prefer or require burial (Orthodox Judaism, Islam); most are now accepting of cremation.
- Compare costs — Direct cremation: $1,000-$3,000. Cremation with service: $3,000-$7,000. Traditional burial: $7,000-$15,000+.
- Consider environmental factors — Green burial (no embalming, biodegradable casket) has lowest environmental impact. Standard cremation uses natural gas. Aquamation (alkaline hydrolysis) is an emerg...
- Decide on memorialization — Cremation: urn in home, columbarium niche, scattering (see topic #830), keepsake jewelry. Burial: cemetery plot, headstone, family plot.
- Consider timing — Cremation is irreversible; some families choose to delay the decision.
2. Key Details
- Cremation rate (US): ~60% and rising (was 27% in 2000)
- Average cremation cost: $6,971 (with funeral service) or $2,000-$3,000 (direct)
- Average burial cost: $7,848 (not including cemetery plot)
- Cemetery plot: $1,000-$5,000+ depending on location
- Headstone: $1,000-$5,000
- Embalming not required for cremation
Common Mistakes
- Assuming cremation means no memorial service (you can have both)
- Not comparing prices between providers
- Not considering family members' wishes and beliefs
- Rushing the decision while grieving
Pro Tips
- Direct cremation (no viewing or ceremony before cremation) is the most afford...
- Ashes can be divided among family members
- Some cemeteries allow cremated remains in existing plots (reducing cost)
- Green burial options are growing — biodegradable casket, no embalming, natura...